"i, like many wanna be slaves, enrolled in the slave training program. Many reasons flooded my mind, but none so powerful than i simply just needed to obey, submit and please a higher female authority—The Academy HeadMistress.

Then i read a training rule about seeking permission. i was shocked. It was not a game. If i were truly serious about this training i no longer had control of my orgasm. Just like that, as though the power of the HeadMistress leapt out from the computer and placed a lock on it.

At first i was in terrible pain. Like many, prior to receiving this rule, i had free reign over my climaxes—to the point that they became a meaningless physical deed. Unfortunately, one cannot simply turn off the faucet. Therefore, my body starved for an orgasm like a hunger panged street beggar. The pain became so unbearable that I questioned my sanity. In fact my mind became mush—a fact not lost on the HeadMistress.

The HeadMistress knew that the orgasm denial and my withdrawal was a painful but necessary process if i were to advance as a slave. She knew that She must purge me of my selfish ways. i begged and pleaded for an orgasm and whined about my suffering. She was merciless, telling me that She enjoyed my suffering and that i should be proud to have the honor of suffering for Her amusement. During my pleas, while my mind was transforming and vulnerable, She struck hard, emblazoning Her dominance and Her superiority over me. Finally, after demonstrating my obedience, showing my appreciation and outright groveling, She relented and granted me permission to climax in accordance with Her exact instructions. It was the best orgasm of my life. It was the best because it had purpose. It was the best because it was no longer about me, but about the Mistress. It was indeed an honor to suffer for the HeadMistress.

What had been missing, was purpose. In chastity, i’ve surrendered my body, mind and spirit to the will of the Mistress—it is pure love, completeness and happiness. All thought, action and belief are subordinate to the Mistress's will at all times. i feel incomplete until the HeadMistress gives me purpose by expressing Her will, desire or need.

i’ve learned that selfish personal sexual release is illusory. Short term sexual release does not even come close to the sheer joy and ecstasy i felt knowing that my suffering and climax pleased the Mistress."

Academy trainee slave evan


"The sexual power of the Woman: As a male committed to Female Dominance, chastity is a quite natural state. The Academy Mistresses teach the lowly males they train that it is very important to give control of their body to a Superior Woman. There are many reasons for chastity. The most important is that a submissive male must focus on the needs of his Mistress, so he must not focus on his body. And that is best achieved by giving the control of his body to another (Female) person.

But the longer i stay in chastity the better i understand chastity is also a spiritual act. This needs a little more explanation. The Mistresses not only ask you to stay in chastity. They ask also to worship their images. This creates a great tension. At the one hand, they are extremely beautyful, so it is normal for a man he wants to wank if he contemplates their images. At the other hand, you feel they control your body and you feel you couldn't even move before their divine images.

And so, at that very same moment, you feel the sexuality and the superiority of the Mistresses. And hence, by worshipping them while staying in chastity brings you close to these two key concepts in Female Dominance.

If you look in nature, sexuality and superiority are everywhere. It are very 'primitive' forces: they were in 'living' nature from the very beginning and are even the driving forces in nature. In the spirituality of Female Supremacy it is very important to return to these basic driving forces in nature, and to attribute that forces to Feminity.

By writing this article i try to understand this in an intellectual way. But what is so fantastic about the Academy For Slaves is that the Mistresses make you understand this truth in a very intuitive way, just by giving you the opportunity to worship them, full of sexual power, while they hold you in chastity. With their sexuality and their power they are very close to the basic forces of nature, and they give you the opportunity to come close to these basic forces through worshipping them. So, entering in relation to these basic forces of nature and submitting to the Mistresses are one and the same act.

My Mistress at the Academy is holding me in chastity now for seven (7) weeks. First i thought it was a kind of punishment, but the longer i stay in chastity, the more i see it as a delight. In the state of mind i am in now, i consider it even a spiritual gift of my Mistress, to come close to the 'core' of Female Supremacy. It is a wonderful feeling.
What is the most wonderful feeling is that once you are no longer a slave of your body, you come open to so much wonderful feelings and you can really come close to the superior needs of your Mistress. Staying in chastity doesn't mean staying without sex. It is a great opportunity to have sex without the need to be concentrated on your body alone.

i thank the Academy Mistresses for giving me this great experience.

The benefits of chastity: At best chastity is viewed as a kind of 'punishment', but most people find it a stupid thing to do, especially when the Person controlling Your chastity is at long distance. For me, when you put chastity in the right perspective, it becomes part of a rich culture and it has many benefits.

Of course, in a FemDom relationship it is normal to start with the benefits for the Mistress. A 'true' FemDom relationship is about the superior needs of the Woman, not about the lowly needs of the male.

In general, a man who is trained in chastity no longer is focused on his body, and all the lowly needs attached with it. So he can better focus on the superior needs of the Woman he serves.

More specific, a man who is trained in chastity can serve the sexual needs of his Mistress in a better way (the sexual needs of his Mistress in a better way. ) A man who isn't trained in chastity reduces his attention to his own body when he starts making love. A man trained in chastity doesn't even need to orgasm when having sex. So he can fully concentrate on the body of the Woman he is serving, and be very attentive for every little 'signal' She is sending about how he can pleasure Her more.

But chastity has benifits for the lowly male too. In general, it makes your will stronger. Most of us are used to wank the whole day round from their early teens. And it is a very easy thing to do to lower frustration or to have a quick satisfaction. Withold yourself from that behaviour is an act of will, you have to make at least several times a day. And if your Mistress asks to worship Her by admiring Her pictures on the internet several times a day, it really becomes a 'hardening' experience not to give in to what your body wants.

And -how strange it may sound- chastity gives sexual pleasure to the male in chastity too. If he is well trained, even a greater and deeper pleasure then he was used to with his easy cumming. When sexually arroused, a lot of sexual energy is build up in the body. For a 'normal' male all this energy is concentrated around his "maleness" and it is released at once during the (short) orgasm. If the body is trained that concentrating the energy in the sex zone is of no use, the energy will spread in the whole body. It builds up, and once a certain threshold passed, it gives a kind of relaxation in the whole body, far deeper than the one you feel after a typical 'male' orgasm. We all know that Women can have deeper and longer orgasms then men. i personally think the 'chastity orgasm' i am describing here is the closest a man can come to the rich feeling of a Female orgasm.

So, dear fellows, if you are convinced of the benefits of chastity, just start doing it. If you need someone to control your chastity or if you have really stubborn dicks, think of chastity training at the Academy as being the right place for you. Chastity is just one click away.

Academy trainee slave stefan